Why Positive Body Language Is So Important

by Tim Covey

Ever watch a game and notice a player that isn’t blatantly having a poor attitude, but something just seems a LITTLE bit off? We all notice the big body language “fouls,” but as coaches we need to watch for the “small” things and teach our players the importance of positive body language.

Let me give an example. A while back I was at an event where the coach happened to be a friend of mine. I was so impressed with the players and their effort, their work ethic, and their attention to detail.

But…there was ONE instance where I noticed a player walking slowly across the infield to her spot. It was not outright disrespect, but I DID notice it. My thoughts went from, “I wonder if she isn’t a hard worker” to “maybe its just a bad moment and this is an anomaly for her”.

It wasn’t major, but the fact is that I noticed SOMETHING and it made me THINK.

Then I talked to coach afterwards and in the course of our conversation it came out that this player is not as easy to motivate as the others…

Hmm…

Now in this one particular instance, it did not have a major impact on what was going on around her. But here is where body language can play itself out in a negative way:

Imagine if I were a college coach. That’s 1 “strike” on the player in the recruiting process. It was JUST enough to make me question her work ethic. This will definitely raise some red flags for the savvy college coach. In many instances, these are the things that will ruin a players chance to be recruited by certain schools.
Negative body language WILL have an impact on her teammates. For the players that are working hard to compete, they will be inwardly (and sometimes outwardly) frustrated with the teammate that consistently shows negative body language on the field.
Negative body language WILL have a negative impact on her own performance. Negative body language is typically an indication of lack of confidence or lack of care. Neither are helpful for individual performance.

On the flip-side, imagine if this same player were to sprint out to her position, be a constant encourager for her teammates, and have a consistent work ethic?

Now you have a player that has the following going for them:

Interested college coaches just became a little more interested.
Teammates feed off of her positive body language and energy, which in turn has a POSITIVE impact on her team.
Her own performance will improve naturally with better focus.

Legendary coach Mike Candrea once said in an interview that “females need to feel good to play good.”

Positive body language permeating throughout a team will help all of your players “feel good” and lead to better performance.

This is why team building is so important. And what 3Dimensional Coaching calls coaching in the 2nd and 3rd Dimensions.

This has to start with the coaching staff. None of us will handle all of these areas perfectly, but trying will put you far ahead of a lot of teams.

As coaches, we will need to help many of our players understand the importance of having positive body language. The hope is that in each players heart they will want to do what’s best for the team and be receptive.

But you have to start somewhere. And sometimes that starting point is helping them see the impact their body language can have on the performance of her team AND herself.

Tim Covey

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2 Responses

Tim Covey

September 15, 2018

Thanks so much Rob I greatly appreciate the kind words and truly glad you are enjoying our content!! We are working on ways to get new content out more regularly…it’s a work in progress but we will get there! :)

Coach Rob

September 15, 2018

It’s funny but every season we as coaches have this same conversation. The athletes and the parents sometimes think it’s cliche or something we’ve heard elsewhere and are regurgitating. As I tell my girls your body language can dictate the outcome of a game, good or bad. Your body language is like a story about you and who you are. A team player or an individual, a leader or a defeatist. I enjoy your web page and find a lot of your blogs helpful and more times than not reassure me of my coaching ability. It’s like your the voice sometimes in my head saying “told you so.” All joking aside though I also tell my athletes it’s the little things when no one is looking, it’s the willingness to be coached, to never settle for failure, that your body language is part of the “Controllable’s” of the game. Anyways thank you and I look forward to your next article/blog. Keep up the dedication some of us are on board 100% Coach TIm!!

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